Why are women who had a relationship with Anthony Weiner complaining now?

Aren't some of them just attention seeking hypocrites? Like the 40 year old blackjack dealer who had chat with him for almost a year on Facebook, and the star who did the same. Aren't they just admitting in public that they are just as sleazy as he is? What do they get out of admitting that they had an on-line relationship with him, and why are they "victims" while he is the sleezebag? A double standard?